Love and Duty: Confederate Widows and the Emotional Politics of Loss
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6 Beautiful Tributes Were Paid to Her: Reconstructing a Nation
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Published:26 April 2022
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At the conclusion of the American Civil War, all widows made decisions about work, home, and possible remarriage. But in the former Confederacy, personal grief combined with communal mourning as memory, memorials, and monuments became a central concern for many white Southerners. This chapter explores Reconstruction and the part widows played in this project. While some elite widows, such as Emilie Todd Helm, sister of Mary Todd Lincoln, played starring roles, most widows did not. Economic class mattered; the widows of officers had more opportunities. Many war widows, too busy, tired, or emotionally spent, chose not to participate in formal memorialization organizations such as Ladies Memorial Associations. They also had nothing to prove. As Confederate widows they, by definition, had sacrificed in ways that intact families had not. They already had cultural standing. Together, this diversity in postwar mourning reveals that white women did not seamlessly work together to create a Lost Cause ideology and suggests that those the war hurt most had the least left to give.
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