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The Thrust Toward Bonding The Thrust Toward Bonding
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Cementing Bonds Cementing Bonds
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Negotiating the Real and the Good Negotiating the Real and the Good
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Narrative: From Self to Relationship Narrative: From Self to Relationship
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The Enchanting of “We” The Enchanting of “We”
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Bonding and Boundaries Bonding and Boundaries
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Relational Severing Relational Severing
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Erosion of the Interior: United We Fall Erosion of the Interior: United We Fall
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The Tyranny of Truth The Tyranny of Truth
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From Erosion to Annihilation From Erosion to Annihilation
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Beyond the Barricades Beyond the Barricades
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Hot Conflict and Transformative Dialogue Hot Conflict and Transformative Dialogue
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The Public Conversations Project The Public Conversations Project
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Narrative Mediation Narrative Mediation
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Restorative Justice Restorative Justice
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6 Bonds, Barricades, and Beyond
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Published:September 2011
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Abstract
This chapter focuses on the processes, potentials, and problems of social bonding, along with dialogic practices for restoring relationship between antagonistic parties. It first considers why and how bonding occurs and why it does not. It then examines the collateral costs of cementing relationships and argues that every thrust toward bonding also gives rise to dangerous barricades. It also explains how the destructive consequences of individualism return once bonding is secured, and how the bonded relationship simply replaces one form of bounded being with another. Finally, the chapter discusses the challenge of transformative dialogue and how it moves across barriers of antipathy.
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